In this enlightening episode of the TAO-Living Podcast, titled “Conscious Dying,” I, Lou Corleto, have the immense privilege of hosting Jane Burnier, a seasoned teacher and practitioner in the realms of healing and consciousness. Our conversation dives deep into a topic that is often shrouded in fear and taboo within Western culture: death and the process of dying.
We begin by exploring Jane’s personal journey into the world of conscious dying, which was profoundly influenced by her experiences during the AIDS crisis in the 1980s. Witnessing the fear and isolation faced by those suffering from the disease, Jane felt a calling to provide comfort and support to individuals during their final moments. Through her work as a Reiki and massage practitioner, she discovered the beauty and transformation that can occur as a person approaches death, shedding their ego and revealing their true essence.
As we unpack the cultural narratives surrounding death, I share my own upbringing, which was steeped in fear and avoidance of the subject. Jane and I discuss how this fear often leads to a lack of authentic connection during the dying process, both for the individual and their loved ones. We emphasize the importance of creating a supportive environment that allows for peace, acceptance, and love during this sacred transition.
Throughout the episode, Jane shares poignant stories from her experiences, illustrating the profound moments of clarity and beauty that can arise as individuals approach their final breath. We discuss the significance of conscious dying—not just as an end, but as a continuation of the soul’s journey and a vital part of the collective consciousness.
We also touch on the role of the medical-industrial complex in prolonging suffering and the importance of advocating for a death that aligns with one’s values and beliefs. Jane emphasizes the need for open conversations about death, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own beliefs and fears surrounding the topic.
As we near the conclusion of our discussion, Jane offers practical advice for both those who are dying and their loved ones. She highlights the importance of allowing space for the dying to express their fears and desires, and the power of simply being present with them in love and acceptance.
In a heartfelt closing, we reflect on the lessons learned from those who have transitioned and the importance of living fully in the present. Jane shares a beautiful passage from her late husband Arno’s book, which encapsulates the essence of our conversation: that death is not an end, but a transition into a greater consciousness.
This episode serves as a powerful reminder to embrace life and death with love and trust, encouraging listeners to engage in conscious living and dying. If this conversation resonates with you, I invite you to share it widely, as it addresses a crucial yet often overlooked aspect of the human experience. Join us in exploring the Art Of Living and the beauty of conscious dying.
00:00:00 – Introduction to TAO-Living Podcast
Welcome to the TAO-Living Podcast with host Lou Corleto, introducing the theme of conscious living and the journey of self-awareness.
00:01:15 – Introducing Jane Burnier
Lou introduces guest Jane Burnier, highlighting her extensive experience in healing and consciousness.
00:01:25 – Taboo Topic: Death and Dying
Discussion on the cultural taboos surrounding death and the fear associated with it.
00:02:30 – Jane’s Journey into Conscious Dying
Jane shares her early experiences with death during the AIDS crisis and how it shaped her understanding of conscious dying.
00:06:30 – The Beauty of Conscious Dying
Exploration of the transformative moments during death and the essence of individuals as they transition.
00:10:00 – Cultural Shift in Perception of Death
Discussion on how the medical model has changed the perception of death from a natural process to something to be feared.
00:12:00 – Conscious Death as a Final Contribution
Jane explains the concept of conscious death as a way to evolve consciousness and leave a positive impact.
00:15:00 – The Importance of Environment During Dying
The significance of creating a peaceful environment for the dying and the impact of family dynamics.
00:18:00 – Supporting Loved Ones in Transition
Advice on how to support those who are dying and the importance of allowing them to let go.
00:20:00 – The Role of Hospice Care
Jane discusses the benefits of hospice care in providing a peaceful and dignified dying process.
00:25:00 – Practical Suggestions for Supporting Grieving Families
Jane shares practical ways to support families after a loss, emphasizing thoughtful gestures.
00:30:00 – Finding Peace in the Dying Process
A story about a woman who found peace in her dying process through connection and nourishment.
00:32:00 – Living Fully to Embrace Death
Discussion on the importance of living authentically to avoid regrets at the end of life.
00:35:00 – The Continuity of Consciousness
Jane reflects on the ongoing connection with loved ones after death and the importance of trust in the process.
00:39:00 – Transitioning from Fear to Trust
Strategies for helping individuals move from fear of death to a place of trust and acceptance.
00:46:00 – Arnaud’s Wisdom on Death
Jane reads a passage from Arnaud’s book about the beauty of the dying process and the connection to divine consciousness.
00:50:00 – Closing Thoughts on Love and Life
Final reflections on embracing life and death with love, and the importance of conscious living.
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